At First Sight
Thursday, December 20, 2007
When most people are blinded by things that are inevitably materialistic, some are mesmerize by things aren’t so much of a fad but in fact are rarely recognizable by many. Love at first sight.
I personally don’t believe in love at first sight. Then again, not so much of a believer of our dear ole love cherub - cupid. But really, love at first sight is only witnessed by so few people that sometimes I wonder if it really was love that they encountered or simply an attraction more so - lust. How about this, is love a one way street? The connection you get with someone which some may describe as pure and everlasting love is somewhat a joke to me and Or the whole soul mate thing is a really a myth. Attack me now. Please.
I do though, believe in love. I think everyone on this planet who feel a heartbeat on their left upper peck is aware that love is there somewhere. Again, very few experience it and very few lose faith. Doesn’t mean at some point they didn’t believe in love.
I have fallen in love twice. I have been with many - many people and yet what I felt the first time I fell in love was nowhere close to any of the women I had after. I came close though to finding my ideal lady. But my first impressions weren’t the ones I gotten to like after a few weeks.
Have you ever gotten a chance to talk to your crush only to find that you actually had nothing in common and so whatever you felt before you had the balls to talk to her/him has gone down the toilet faster than the toilet suction on a cruise? Yep. It happens to me all the time - no really, all the time.
I have three options there :
1. I can either keep talking in hopes of finding something - one thing good about them
2. I can walk away and pretend I got a call on my cell and never look back
3. Smile, offer a drink, walk away and say thank you ma’am.
Truthfully I go for option 2 or 3 depends on my mood. My time limit is 10 minutes. If my eyes are wandering and I start to nod it means that I am not interested and I just staying there because I feel bad. But otherwise, I am nice to those who are pretty.
Maybe that’s what my problem is, I don’t give chances. Life isn’t about wasting time. I don’t like to waste my time and the precious time of others. Trust me, I have gotten rejected once or twice. But you know, I just move on and hopefully the next one will be the love of my life.
I don’t know. I am one tough cookie when it comes to letting myself love again.
I am cursed.
I personally don’t believe in love at first sight. Then again, not so much of a believer of our dear ole love cherub - cupid. But really, love at first sight is only witnessed by so few people that sometimes I wonder if it really was love that they encountered or simply an attraction more so - lust. How about this, is love a one way street? The connection you get with someone which some may describe as pure and everlasting love is somewhat a joke to me and Or the whole soul mate thing is a really a myth. Attack me now. Please.
I do though, believe in love. I think everyone on this planet who feel a heartbeat on their left upper peck is aware that love is there somewhere. Again, very few experience it and very few lose faith. Doesn’t mean at some point they didn’t believe in love.
I have fallen in love twice. I have been with many - many people and yet what I felt the first time I fell in love was nowhere close to any of the women I had after. I came close though to finding my ideal lady. But my first impressions weren’t the ones I gotten to like after a few weeks.
Have you ever gotten a chance to talk to your crush only to find that you actually had nothing in common and so whatever you felt before you had the balls to talk to her/him has gone down the toilet faster than the toilet suction on a cruise? Yep. It happens to me all the time - no really, all the time.
I have three options there :
1. I can either keep talking in hopes of finding something - one thing good about them
2. I can walk away and pretend I got a call on my cell and never look back
3. Smile, offer a drink, walk away and say thank you ma’am.
Truthfully I go for option 2 or 3 depends on my mood. My time limit is 10 minutes. If my eyes are wandering and I start to nod it means that I am not interested and I just staying there because I feel bad. But otherwise, I am nice to those who are pretty.
Maybe that’s what my problem is, I don’t give chances. Life isn’t about wasting time. I don’t like to waste my time and the precious time of others. Trust me, I have gotten rejected once or twice. But you know, I just move on and hopefully the next one will be the love of my life.
I don’t know. I am one tough cookie when it comes to letting myself love again.
I am cursed.
me either.
we are obviously on the same page here.
love is something many do experience. then again, love is an umbrella, a support system...a way to feel secure.
PS i love your blog.
my dear...
you cannot go around hoping that you will fall in love with the next pretty blonde that walks into your life (or up to the bar next to you). Love is unexpected. Don't go looking for it- it will find you.
-tiff